Kissing is a very important and intimate experience. So important that you can be totally ruled out of the dating game if you’re not a good kisser. Women tend to think that if a man is a horrible kisser, he’s probably crap in bed too. Kissing is an emotional expression, you need to understand the essence and the right techniques to deliver the best performance. Here are some tips to send you on your way to be a good kisser whether it’s with your partner, escort, or the girl you just picked up at the bar.
Make sure you are attractive- kissing is an up and close experience. For a woman to actually want to kiss you, you need to make sure you face is clean and shaven and your breath is fresh. Keep mints or chewing gum with you to combat cigarette or alcoholic breath. Make sure your lips are soft and supple and not dry and cracked. You can wet your lips before the kiss, or use a small amount of lip balm to moisturise your lips and wipe it off before the kiss. Do not apply a large amount of lip balm before kissing, greasy lips can be a turn off.
Start slow- make sure the moment is right, don’t just pounce on her if she isn’t even interested in kissing you. Look into her eyes to see if she’s looking back at you and expecting you to kiss her. You can even try to kiss on her cheeks if you are not sure. Lean over and take it slowly when your lips first touch. Pay attention to how she reacts and responds to your kiss before you take it further.
Different types of kiss- Stiffly shuffling your tongue into her mouth and vigorously stirring like a washing machine can be a turn off. Try different types of kisses. Soft sucking, nibbling and licking on the lips can be nice. Wait for her to relax and open up, do not force your tongue into her mouth. Be confident and be in control of the kiss, but be aware you are soft and unaggressive until the kiss becomes more passionate.
Body language- add variation to your face positions, turn your head as your kiss progresses to avoid bumping into each others’ noses. Place your hands where they should be. Hold her body or head and stroke gently, do not grope or fumble desperately.